Write Down Something That You Cannot Speak

“Reading make a full man; conference a ready man; and writing an exact man” - Francis Bacon

Expressing your happiness is always an easy job. Whenever you are excited then as per the rule of nature you will shout out the reason behind your happiness to the people around you. The tensions around you evaporate and you feel like partying with your friends. But one should remember that every coin has two sides.

Scenes are totally different once you switch to dull mood. You go silent, you feel like kicking everyone off, and you want to but aren’t able to share your problems. Even after you somehow makeup your mind to share your thoughts with someone whom you trust, might often find later on that after all the hard work you were still able to recite only half of the story.

It is natural characteristic of humans to loose control whenever they are in tension. As a result it becomes impossible for them to completely express themselves, and such situations can cause blunders in sensitive relationships. It is natural characteristic of males to fight with their problems themselves and females on the other hand share their problems with someone close to them. This uneven match in thinking process between males and females is the root cause of problems almost always.

No wonder why many people prefer keeping personal diaries or personal blogs where they write about themselves and their daily life happenings. Writing down something which is there in your brain helps you ease the weight which your brain is carrying. It is scientifically proved that once someone writes down his problems, then his tension reduces to half. Keeping personal diaries or a personal blog might not be everyone’s choice as there are chances of such writings going public and being read by someone who isn’t entitled to read it.

This is when sharing your thoughts with your friend is the best option. There must be that special someone out there whom you trust but you aren’t able to gather the courage to speak out what you want to. The best way out is to write down an email, detail your problem, and shoot it to her with a request for some suggestion. Once you know that someone else is also working on your problem then things will ease out for you.

This also helps in keeping your relationship crystal clear. Whenever you feel like there is something between you two which needs to be shared but somehow you aren’t able to share it face to face then please do not waste time and write about it and show it to her. If your relationship is crystal clear then no power on earth can break it. Try it!