LET HER RULE

Females today are competing equally with males in every field, and many times they are even found to lead them. In many situations men do not prefer a female conquering them, and this characteristic of theirs should be very well understood. Even though such kind of thoughts generate competition to some extent they also generate unwanted tension within the relationship, which results in hatred and later in break ups.

In any relationship men will always prefer to be the leaders because they are taught to be so; and many times just to show their power they go on to break the hearts of their female counterparts. Males need to understand that the days of men leading females are gone. The world is moving and so are the thoughts of both the sexes. Instead of fighting to enforce your ideas on her, the better way out is to discuss various situations with a cool mind.

An easy way to find a place in her brain is to appreciate her ideas. Let her speak because she loves to speak, listen to her, and IF possible appreciate her ideas. At any stage if you think that she is heading the wrong way, then discuss the situation with her and try to propose other ways with the situation can be worked around. Be easy with her and don’t try to force your decision on her.

Regularly suppressing her and her thoughts will result in her hiding things from you.

Slowly, as she realizes how much easier it is to just hide things from you than to make an effort and share, she will make this to be a part of the regular process; and I am sure no male will want his female partner to hide things from him. So instead of suppressing her thoughts, as stated earlier, it is always a better decision to firstly listen to her and once she is done, to put forward another way out and that too in an easy manner. Remember to be cool, calm, composed, and all other adjectives.

I have stated above that males should listen to her, and if possible request her to re-think her decision BUT this does not mean that they should try to change her decisions every time. Instead, if you think that she is the girl you want to be with then learn to love her completely and respect all her thoughts.

At times you may feel like she wants you to conquer you (just because she is madly in love with you) so ignore it and try not to overdo your efforts. Anything in excess is not good for health.