Size Of Gift Does Not Matter Regularity Does

“A woman asks little of love: only that she be able to feel like a heroine.” ~Mignon McLaughlin, The Second Neurotic’s Notebook, 1966.

Gifts are like magnets and the general rule is: “Men should think twice before choosing some gift for her.” Although this line is very correct still I would like to add something to it. “Men should think twice before choosing some gift for her, AND be regular with gifts.”

The added point is extremely important and almost always overlooked by males while in a relationship with some female. In early days of the relationship excitement level is at its extreme and males tend to make it more exciting by performing various acts. Small gifts like: 4 liners to express feelings, saying I love you in various languages, calling her on phone daily, taking her out for dinner, praising her acts and her characteristics etc. are part of their daily routine. Males give equal importance to such stuff along with their daily issues.

BUT as the relationship progresses the promptness of such small gifts decreases and in many situations it tends to be zero. Males develop a thinking that size of gift matters and their point of interest deviates from small gifts to king size efforts. As a result the time gap between two successive efforts increases.

He may think that after buying a diamond ring for her he won’t have to buy gifts for maybe the next 30 days. After all, the ring wasn’t cheap! Here males need to understand that the gap of 30 days was enough to overshadow the importance of the rich gift. The reason behind this is simple: “Females give equal importance to every gift whether big or small.”

Women need your present energy, effort, and attention much more than your wealthy life style. A phone call every morning will bring you closer to her when compared to all the expensive gifts every month.

After marriage females cook meals, clean up everything, and look after the house whereas males earn money to pay bills and they think they have done their job. It’s false. Along with their tiring job, which brings in hefty paychecks men need to continue with their small efforts (mentioned earlier) which they used to perform when their relationship was in its infancy.