Females Look For Empathy And Nurturing Instead Of Solution

I have pointed this out before and want to point it out once again: for females relationship is more important than work and technology. Even though these days the other way round might be true for some females still at some point of time it is the relationship which will matter more for her. This is the only reason why there are more cases of females complaining about the missing effects of the relationship. She cares for the relationship, which she is in with her partner, and hence, expresses her concern.

She loves to share her problems because this is a nice way for her to come close to her partner. At the time when she was talking about her problem she didn’t expected any solutions (because if she had expected any then she would have said that straight.) She is stressed when facing some problem and by sharing her thoughts she is able to find relief from her tension. This might be confusing for males because for him sharing his problems means expecting a solution and once she shares her problems with him he starts looking for solutions. Although what she wanted from him was his ears listening to her problems and boost her confidence.

Males have the habit of solving every problem related to them as this gives a boost to their confidence but they should prefer biting their tongues when they feel the urge to solve the problems, which she is talking about. Men need to place them in the situation where they know a solution to some problem but someone rejects that solution and asks them to go the other way. They will get frustrated and same is the case with females. They get frustrated when something is forced on them even though they know the way out.

Thus, instead of providing a solution to her problems he should prefer to listen to her and motivate her. A sentence like “This seems to be a tough problem but I know you are capable enough to come out of it. Whenever you need me just tell me.” is enough to boost her confidence and is enough to empower her so that she can handle the problem herself. She feels cherished when she is praised and this is exactly what she was looking for when she shared her problems. So next time listen patiently to what she says and do not always jump in to solve her problems.