Women Feel Insecure When Men Suddenly Becomes Quiet

“The best way to help a man grow is to let go of trying to change him in any way.”

Well, if you are one of the regular readers of this blog then you must be knowing very well why woman talk? Males on the other hand are totally different. They like to go silent whenever they are confused. Females prefer sharing their problems if they are confused. This is their style of cooling down while men prefer to stay lonely for few hours in order to cool off their nerves.

Problems arise because females try to compare such situations (of males going silent) with theirs. She starts thinking that by staying silent he is trying to deny his problems. This is enough for her to get tensed. Females care a lot for her man and even if he is suffering from smallest of the problems she wants to solve those.

He needs to explain to her that he might be upset but he is capable of overcoming the problem himself and all what he needs is few hours to sit lonely and think. Tell her that you want to share the problem but first you need some time to cool down. Once you are in your senses you will talk.

Instead once he is upset and she asks, “What is the problem?” he puts an awkward end to the problem by saying, “I am OK.” These three words are enough for her to think the worst. She starts wondering what it is he is worried about and why isn’t he ready to share his problem. The situation goes from bad to worse when he repeatedly denies her request of sharing his problems. She feels like he is ignoring her, as he does not trust her. This marks the beginning of the end of the relationship.

Thus as explained earlier in this article, whenever men are tensed they should explain to her that they will share their problem but first they need some time to cool off. Try this and you will be amazed to see how she willingly gives you the space, which you need.