Your Relationship Will Never End Cordially!

The general agony of every broken heart is that “I never thought that it will end like this”, well with every partner that comes our way as we sped along the relationships in our life we tend to form a certain bond and I think every one who calls himself or herself as non ditching friend or an honest lover will disagree with the fact that it was extremely hurting to get away from the one we loved so much.

The relationships and matters of heart are extremely complicated in comparison with other problems that we come across in life.

Every now and then we like certain people whom we call as friends and someone who is above the range of friendship too. The genuine scenario that we like being with that people justifies our attraction and affection towards them and in the springs of bonds they have an illusion that good times will never end but sadly and most unfortunately not always things work out the way we had supposed them to. Arguments, differences of opinion and many other reasons personal and public way of dealing with things of the individuals involved can result in the sad word called “break up”. A diverse range of emotions, mental trauma, and feelings are experienced for a long period of time, sometimes excessive gladness and happiness and sometimes extreme depression leading to suicidal thoughts can eventually develop in a recently heart broken mind. It might take months to end and sometimes years but from the side of the person that was more involved in the relationship emotionally, he or she is left out with the question “I never wanted this to end like this . Why?”

Well, from the third persons point of view a relationship before leading to break up shows many signs of cracks and personal differences and now once you are out of it then after a period of time you realize that it was ought to end but why did it ended with so much pain. Here in this article I am not providing you the tools to reduce break up pain or the tips to avoid break up. What I am up to is the answer that lies to this question, why did it ended with so much pain?

Among the two people involved, one will have to take the initiative to call the things end, this implies that gradually the other will suffer the most and perhaps ask this question to himself or herself, but you know what? It would have never ended had your partners be a little more compassionate towards you and expecting it to end cordially seems to be impossible dream.

The law of science says a single break resilience to stop a machine, a cycle for e.g. has two breaks, one that is of left and stops the back tire and one on right that stops the front tire, a bike has a break near the foot that pushes the back tire to stop immediately when pressed, a car too has breaks which stops the tires on the back, no simple machine has a spring that when pressed stops the front and back wheels simultaneously, similar is our relationships and life around them. It wont stop with both the partners stepping down and calling the relationship off, gradually one of the two will tear apart the threads of promises and will leave the other one in grief.

Yeah! This is life. Except in case of friends with benefits, where the physical motives are involved and once the sexual needs are satisfied then the formula of kiss and goodbye applies but I don’t call those as relationships. In the bonds where true feelings are involved, the suffering is always more for one person and relation ends with the withdrawal of the other! Sadly but truly speaking when you love someone , the grief of separation is unbearable. When you love someone and you get hurt. It’s like a cut, it will heal but the scar will always be there.

Whenever I cried you always made me feel like you would change the world if you could so that it couldn’t hurt me anymore but now I am crying and you’re not here. When I see you smile and I know that its not for me, that is when I miss you the most.

This article is a guest post from PULKIT , a passionate print media writer, who is trying hard to switch to this mad planet of bloggers.