FEMININE DESIRE

You love me my love?
Of course I do.
More than anyone else?
Yeah, more than anyone else dear.
Wasn’t there anyone in your life before me whom you loved with same intensity?
Naaa.. no one.
C’mon, that is past. You can tell me that. Don’t you trust me?
I…do.
So was there anyone whom you loved as much as you love me?
Well, but that does not matter now know? All that is past.
What the hell??!!!

And the man has not only dug his own grave, he may as well step into it and lie down gracefully. As per the woman’s perspective, he has just admitted that he has loved some other (female) as much as he loves her.

From the man’s perspective, it’s a different story. He is confused at whatever he said that created the havoc? He knows that he made a commitment that he loves her more than anyone else in this world, and all what he gets in return is “What the hell.”

What does a woman want? Men go on to write a complete encyclopedia on this topic still they find themselves confused at what is it that she actually wants? He asks himself, his God, his friends, and even the women around him – and yet he is confused. Recently few of my friends made up their minds to finally get the answer. After all that answer will help us sort out our own lives!

We talked to women in love, who had been in love, who want to fall in love, and even those who (don’t?) give damn to love. After some few hours of discussions (we bunked classes) we all agreed that women want love and attention. Were you expecting more? Sorry to disappoint you but that is it. Women want attention, affection and communication.

Guys out their won’t believe this (if they haven’t tried this), once she blasts you out all what is needed is your calm brain, a smile, and a silly sentence to set things right all over again! Digging back to Stone Age it was she who was the nurturer and protector of her family while the man was away hunting. In those times she never used to be sure if he would come back or not so she socialized and formed friendly circles to ensure support.

When they (females) were kids, it was regular for them to ask their parents, elder brothers/sisters, and relatives if they loved them a lot? Don’t you remember the kind of satisfaction they received with the answers? Did you ever find a boy doing that? Well, nothing of sorts has changed even today. These days instead of her parents she asks her boy friend (or husband) if he loves her a lot…

Remember that they don’t want you to repeat that same sentence again and again because they are insecure of you or else they do not trust you. It is just that they love the connection which develops between you two when you confirm to her that yes she is the one. For her not only the physical presence is enough, it is the emotional presence, which counts. (Haven’t you heard this before?)

It is a proven fact that a man gives up his attitude/style/persona etc. when he says the “I love you.” This is the time when she can expect that silly smile of his which is enough to confirm how well it affects her. And now you know women love such silly confirmations.

So if it is just about attention, affection and communication (or to make it simpler, if it is just about eye contact, a hug or his hand on her shoulder, and a word of confirmation) than is it that big a deal? Guys, what is it that you are confused about?