Although the usual flowers, cards, or candle light dinners could be useful to bring a smile on a girl’s face, trying something unique can help you paint your own portrait in her brain quite instantly. So here goes the list of ideas which can be used to leave a mark on your girl’s mind. But remember NEVER to overdo it. It’s pretty simple… just follow the K-I-S-S principle.
“Keep It Simple, Stupid.”
Many guys might think of trying something very unique, which might not be listed here, or other similar articles. Trying your own style, or learning from someone else are great decisions also; either way shows that you care and that is what matters.
1) Your Own 4 Liners
Take your time. Find a peaceful place and try to write few lines especially for her. Believe me if I can write 4 liners, then you are much better than me. Write those 4 lines on a self designed greeting card and leave it where she easily finds it (NOT where she easily finds it the day after…)
2) Flowers with a difference
Many people prefer gifting red roses to girls on V-Day. While there isn’t anything wrong with that, a touch of difference to gifts is always a better idea. How about adding one white rose in the bunch of red roses? Tell her that in his group of people there is one person who is stands out, and for you it’s her!
3) No Work on Valentine’s Day Please
You wait for national holidays so that you get a free day… and you work on Valentine’s Day. Why? Take leave from work on that special day and spend it completely with her.
4) Valentine’s Day ‘Cake’
You buy birthday cakes, then why not a Valentine’s Day cake? Give it a try this year.
5) Got full pockets?
If yes, then hire a limousine and make the day special. Else buy diamond rings.
6) Add the category ‘Romance’ in your budget
While you enjoy the day with her, start talking about your budget, and add the category ‘Romance’ in it. Fill the category with any romantic plans for the rest of the year. This is surely going to raise her expectations.
7) Bribe your kids
Are you already married and have kids who love to be a hindrance to your love life? Buy a set of DVDs, lots of popcorn and a number of soda cans. Now while the kids enjoy movies, you two can skip to your room for a special celebration ‘under cover.’
8 ) Treasure Hunt
Create a list of hints, one helping her to get to another. Let her do the searching and watch the excitement build up. Try and create hints that relate to your relationship and past memories. This will help you bring back those memories.
9) Code ABC
Create a list of gifts with names starting from A, B, C till Z. Write the alphabets A to Z on various pieces of paper and leave them on visible places around the house. Give her the gifts as per the alphabets which she hits upon.
10) Name Game
Search for the meaning of her name. Then, search for some famous personalities with that same name, and all their extraordinary involvements. Write the meaning of the name in calligraphic writing on the top and the list of names and their achievements under it. Arrange for a colored print out, which catches her eye and give it to her. Let her know that even her name matters to you.
11) Story Telling
As the day passes, discuss with her the small happenings of your past. Believe me you will cherish those moments.
12) Songs Which She Loves
Burn a list of songs that make you think of her, and your relationship with her. Wrap the CD with some glossy paper and tie it with a bow.
13) Gems OR Gadgets? Why Not Both!
Buy a pink or silver heart shaped luxurious USB drive pendant which will hold 1GB of her docs.
14) E-Book Instead Of Book
This month Sony is dressing up its Sony Reader with a “Cross Your Heart” vinyl skin, and throwing in 14 Harlequin Romance novels that are not yet available in print. If your lady likes to curl up in bed with a good romance novel, this Harlequin bundle may be your ticket to her heart.
15) A Gift From Microsoft
Microsoft was the first to announce its special 80GB red Zune that includes your choice of laser-etched artwork on the back. You’ll be able to choose between 20 designs, and further personalize the player with special playlists and wallpaper. Apple announced its 8GB pink iPod nano last week, which will no doubt be a big seller even after Valentine’s Day.
16) A Pink BlackBerry
Chatting online is great when you’re still in a very new relationship, but why not take your relationship to the next level? This year, surprise her with a fashion handset like the Pink Blackberry Pearl 8130 or the pink LG Venus.
17) Clock With A Difference
Clocky may not be the most exciting gift on Valentine’s Day, but it could be the most fun. If her New Year’s Resolution was to stop being late, then she’ll get a kick out of this alarm clock. Clocky rolls off the nightstand after the snooze button has been hit a few times, and rolls around the floor looking for a place to hide. To make snoozing even more difficult, the mischievous alarm clock rotates its body as it tries to hide the snooze button. Its sole purpose is to get her out of bed in a fun way, and to work or school on time. Nanda Home is now selling a Raspberry Clocky to celebrate Valentine’s Day.
18 ) Watch Movies Of Her Choice
Those who are tired of doing the same stuff again and again need to read this. Take her to a movie rental store and split up. You choose your selection and let her select hers. Then, watch those movies together with full interest. Do remember to arrange for some soda and popcorn in advance.
19) Ask her
Again, if you have been doing the same for too long then sit with her and frankly ask her what she wants. And mind you, do not adjust with the gift. Do it the way she wants it to be done.
20) Wrap up the pending tasks
I am very sure that she might have been asking you to run many errands. Make a list of those and finish them off. This might seem small, but for a woman who sees those tasks as one less thing for her to do, this a nice gift: the gift of change.
21) Write down your feelings
Why not re-live those days of romance and write a love letter once again. You don’t need to be a great writer for this. Just thank her for being a part of your life and tell her how important she is to you. Ask her to do the same and see some hidden feelings flow out.
22) Story Telling
Convert your love life into a bed time story and tell her that story just like a mom reads out a bed time story to her kid.
23) Get Your Past Printed
If you are good at drawing then create cartoons and relate them to your love life. If that isn’t possible then pay someone to do this for you. Your story, your idea in the form of a comic strip or book will do wonders.
24) Get an ASCII Art Printed for Her
Search for “ASCII Art” in Google. Create an ASCII art of her image and give it to her personally or through email.
25) A Movie of Your Confessions
Create a movie of your confessions. Record what you like in her and any other stuff which you want to share. Tell her how important she is to you and if possible shed some tears too. 
26) Hidden Meaning
Arrange for a pen which shines in black light. Write down love messages in her room when she is away. This way you won’t make the walls dirty, and when she comes in she will see those messages only with that black light. Read “Da Vinci Code” by Dan Brown for details of such a pen.
27) A Coupon Book
Create your own coupon book and fill it with exciting gifts. In return of every coupon you give her a gift or do something for her.
28 ) Plant A Tree
Plant a tree and make a small sign board which sits near the tree saying who the tree was planted for.
29) A Dinner Chain
Ask other couples to take part and one by one all couples go to the other couples home and enjoy some appetizers. This will last for the complete evening and you will find a chance to enjoy time with your friends too.
30) Why I Love You Messages
Write down “Why I Love You” messages on many pieces of papers and hide them on various places around the house. Please hide them so that she easily finds them while doing her daily chores.
31) Heart shaped Pizza Instead Of Cake
Instead of the regular chocolate heart shaped cake why not give her a heart shaped pizza?
32) Kick The T.V. Out
Remove the TV out of your bedroom and spend the whole day with her in your bedroom. For the unmarried the idea is to spend the complete day with her ONLY. Please see to it that there is no one else to disturb.
33) Use Red Chopsticks
Try this once. Red color is always responsible to accelerate the blood flow, and this is scientifically proven. Eat slowly and enjoy the moment.
34) Let Your Pet Remind Her In Advance
Tie a red ribbon or a similar signal to your or her pet to remind her that valentine’s day is coming.
35) Circle 14th February
Circle the day 14th Feb on her calendar and ask her friends in her office (or school) to do the same on calendars around her. Just an early signal that you haven’t forgotten.
36) Enjoy Some Live Music
Look out for some band which will be performing live on 14th Feb in an area near you. Enjoy the music and a dinner after that.
37) Toss The Coin And Shoot A Romantic Dare
Toss coins and the winner gets the chance to shoot romantic dares to the partner which the partner needs to execute any way they can. Ask her some tricky questions which she might want to answer but is afraid to talk about. Now you know how to go cheesy with this game.
38 ) Examination Time
Ask her to prepare a question paper which has questions about her likes and dislikes. Then answer those questions and agree upon a deal to give her a gift of her choice for every wrong answer. Better know her well before playing this game.
39) The Name Game
For the complete Valentine’s week, think of 7 different names and each day call her with one particular name. Tell her that you will give her a gift of her choice whenever you fail to call her with the name which you had thought about. Make the names such so that they tingle her thoroughly and others don’t understand what you mean.
40) Stones to Show Your Emotions
Stones could well be appreciated by your girl friends. Rubies are the best choice for showing your love and passion. The deeper the red, the deeper your love. To show your profound friendship, choose a piece which includes an emerald or peridot.
41) Gift Her Childhood Back To Her
While talking to her make a note of things which she missed in her childhood and which she wants to do. Arrange for it, and fulfill her dead dreams.
42) Go Pink Instead Of Red
For a change buy things which are pink: cards, papers, or whatever. Everything should be pink. Celebrate the day with a difference.
43) Perfumes
Which female won’t love this? But please make sure the fragrance is pleasing NOT killing. And ask her NOT to pour the complete bottle on herself in one go.
44) Jewelry
If you’ve got money then this could be a real good option for you. Please think about looks first and do not compromise with quality. If your pockets do not allow this then do not choose this option.
45) Custom Mugs
Get your message printed on a coffee mug and gift it to her. This long lasting gift will surely t your thoughts to her mind every time she uses it.
46) Just a ‘Few’ Calls
While she is at work call her every hour and tell her how important she is to you. Your confirmations will be very pleasing for her.
47) Propose a Visit To Her Family
Propose a visit to her family and throw the idea of celebrating the day with them. Do remember that if she isn’t that close to her family, this idea can have its opposite effects too.
48 ) Prepare Tons Of Gossip Topics For Her
I am sure girls will bash me at this point but believe me a full day of gossip and a smile to everything she said will make the day for her. Try it!
49) A Cute “Little” Teddy Bear
Somehow girls prefer hugging a teddy instead of hugging a real human. So try this and note the word little, as size matters in this case. Buy a smaller teddy instead of the large fat ugly bear!
50) Chocolate At Last
I never wanted to include the generic gifts in this list, so I saved this for the end. This evergreen gift is always a life saver if you forgot to buy a Valentine’s day gift for her.
The Bonus Tip (I always prefer this)
51) Make Every Day A Valentine’s Day!
Yeah! I still haven’t understood the concept of Valentine’s Day. Why do you need that one day to make things special. Care for her daily and care for her like their won’t be any other day.
You read the above tips, and now do read the precautions listed below as your one silly mistake can mess up your complete day.
1) Do not repeat your gifts every year, or on every occasion. It’s better to buy a different gift for her birthday than what you bought for her on Valentine’s Day.
2) Do not leave her alone with your friends.
3) Never buy something to which she is allergic.
4) Do not give her a gift that you bought for someone else.
5) Do NOT fart when with her!
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