A GIFT FOR HER

Let me ask a simple question. If you think that she isn’t that special that you give her all the happiness then why do you run behind her? Why do you call her daily and regularly want her to come out for dates? Believe me, she deserves more than what you are currently doing for her.

Females are that creation of God who have been gifted with qualities like perseverance, caring nature, thoughtful brains (even though they tend to commit blunders sometimes but isn’t such behavior part of their beauty?) and the quality of helping those for whom they care.

While she is young and the relationship between her and her partner is in its infancy she is willing to sacrifice and mold herself to fulfill her partner’s needs. She will think a lot about him, about his likings and disliking and will try her best to make her feel comfortable and cozy. She tends to forget herself and her feelings, her thoughts, and her needs all show up once she matures and this is the time when then she realizes how she had been busy in giving herself away and how she never cared for her own feelings.

Once she feels the need to fulfill her dreams then she will begin to set limits and will expect him to fulfill her needs. This unexpected change confuses him and he feels like she is trying to withdraw away from the relationship. He might try to sort things out but as he does not know the real reason behind her withdrawal so he isn’t able to solve this confusing problem. Slowly the distance between the two increases and the relationship goes to gallows.

To avoid such disastrous end results males must give to her everything they can from the day-one of their relationship so that once their relationship grows then the feelings of being neglected by the other doesn’t creep in.

While in younger years, males are more self-absorbed and unaware of the needs of others, they are busy with their own life and midst of all this they forget that their partner has some dreams, which need to be looked after. When he matures then he realizes how he can better serve and respect others. His major change is becoming more aware of how he can succeed in giving.

But what I want to emphasize here is the fact that males should develop this maturity as soon as possible. They must understand the fact that she deserves her dreams and if she has molded herself to fulfill his needs then why can’t he do that? After all it is their relationship, which will grow stronger and stronger if both of them think about the other.